Congregation Beth Mordecai Cemetery Rules

Losing someone you love is hard, and figuring out how to honor them can be confusing. Many families who visit Congregation Beth Mordecai Cemetery in Perth Amboy, NJ, ask about the rules for erecting a memorial.

At Shevchenko Monuments, we know this is a tough time. We help you follow cemetery guidelines and create a memorial that shows how much your loved one meant to you. We guide you through each step with care and respect so that you can feel sure about your choices.

A Sanctuary of Memory: Cultural Roots and Sacred Rest

Congregation Beth Mordecai Cemetery in Perth Amboy, NJ, was started in 1894 by early Jewish settlers. It began as a small half-acre burial ground and grew in 1985 to include the nearby Hebrew Progressive section.

Today, its quiet paths and shady oak trees hold the memories of Ashkenazi and Sephardic Jews—many who came here to escape hard times and build new lives.

The cemetery follows Conservative Judaism and is cared for by Beth Mordecai Synagogue. Its name honors Mordecai, a brave figure from the Book of Esther known for standing up and remembering others.

Cultural and Religious Symbolism in Memorial Design

At Congregation Beth Mordecai Cemetery, Jewish traditions guide how each headstone is made. Most memorials include Hebrew writing, meaningful messages, and symbols like the Star of David, menorahs, and lyres.

The stones are usually made from granite or marble, with smooth surfaces in soft gray or white colors. Common shapes like upright tablets and slanted markers show respect and modesty.

Personal touches are quiet but powerful, honoring each person’s family, faith, and heritage through special designs.

Monument Standards and Design Flexibility

At Congregation Beth Mordecai Cemetery, monument guidelines balance reverence with flexibility, encouraging meaningful personalization while preserving dignity and tradition.

• Size and shape are unrestricted but should not obstruct neighboring plots or pathways.
• Permitted materials include granite and marble, chosen for their longevity and spiritual resonance.
• Design options allow etched imagery, engraved portraits, and custom silhouettes, provided they remain respectful.
• Inscriptions may be rendered in English or Hebrew, and often feature commemorative phrases or religious iconography.
• Placement typically follows eastward orientation toward Jerusalem.
• Permit and approval processes are required to ensure compliance with community standards and aesthetics.

These policies reflect both Jewish customs and the congregation’s inclusive approach to remembrance.

Guidance and Support in Memorial Planning

At Shevchenko Monuments, we know that designing a lasting memorial can feel confusing. Our team helps you understand cemetery rules and build a monument step by step. 

We focus on excellent service and guide families to make wise choices that honor loved ones with care and respect. You can reach out anytime to talk about your options and create a memorial that matches your vision.

Location and Nearby Points of Interest

Congregation Beth Mordecai Cemetery is located at 387 Florida Grove Road in Perth Amboy, NJ. It’s easy to reach by Route 35 or Amboy Avenue. 

Nearby landmarks include the historic Beth Mordecai Synagogue and the Hebrew Progressive Cemetery, which shares the same grounds.

Another nearby Jewish cemetery is Beth Israel Cemetery in Woodbridge. It’s known for its Bible Garden and a special memorial honoring Holocaust victims.

To ask about directions or cemetery plans, you can call the synagogue office at (732) 442-2431.

Directions from Cemetery to Monument Services

Getting from Congregation Beth Mordecai Cemetery to Shevchenko Monuments takes just about four minutes by car. For visual reference, you can view the map on this webpage.

1. Exit the cemetery onto Florida Grove Road heading south. 

2. Continue straight for approximately 0.8 miles. 

3. Look for 329 S Florida Grove Road on your right. 

4. Turn into the driveway for Shevchenko Monuments. 

5. Park in the designated visitor area near the entrance.

Disclaimer:  Shevchenko Monuments has no affiliation with Congregation Beth Mordecai Cemetery.